The WIFE, man's Helper

After creating man, God placed man in the Garden where everything was in its fulness. God gave Adam DOMINION and the RESPONSIBILITY to tend, guard and keep Eden- (Gen 1:5). Adam did not come from Rags to Riches but the moment he was created, he was filthy rich. Even if the animals would queue before him for their names, Adam still needed a "HELPER" - (Gen 2:18).

If somebody needs a helper, it means he has a "PROBLEM". In this case, God noticed the problem and his solution was not MONEY, a JOB, CHILDREN, neither was it another MAN but a "WIFE". Therefore, the purpose of a wife in marriage is to solve Adam's problems.

As soon as she gets married, the woman has to have TOOLS to research the problem and find SOLUTIONS them. Surprisingly, Eve went out of her prerogative,instead of helping, she was busy with the fruit trees where she later met the snake. A lot of women will do that, seeking all sorts of other things. Window shopping becomes the main thing. They end up complaining to the Pastor that Adam has a problem, of which that's the exact reason for their being. When God saw the PROBLEM, he created the WOMAN not the PASTOR, Councillor or Auntie.

On the other hand, Adam should never think that it is Eve who has a PROBLEM.A lot of men think they are HELPING women. This thought is not consistant with scripture.

It is Eve's duty to find out the problems and solve them. Why is it Adam does not want to bath. Prepare for him a warm bath or do it together. Why is Adam coming back home late? Give him a special treat. Find out why? May be its the braai, or TV. There is nothing that Eve cannot do for her man so that he doesn't go out-wherever.

Don't leave this duty in the hands of mistresses (small houses). In fact dont accept such nonsense. Pray for your husband Eve. "From your mouth to the ears of God"- he will come back home. Study what he wanted there, maybe its just the simple things that you used to do when you were boy and girlfriend. Spoil him.

If the HELPER takes her position, as in the PLAN of God, marriages will be STRONG and so as our COMMUNITIES and NATIONS ultimately. "...and they will live happily ever after!!" Be blessed!